You’ve downloaded the apps. Probably more than one. You’ve swiped, matched, chatted, deleted them, downloaded them again. Maybe you’ve tried speed dating, singles events, introductions through friends, or simply made a conscious effort to get out more and meet people. In other words, you are doing something. And yet months turn into years, dates go nowhere, conversations disappear, and sooner or later a fairly uncomfortable thought creeps in: Everyone else seems to manage thi